Updated June 28, 2024, 20:00 IST
A first date is always special. It's always exciting to get to know the other person and spend quality time together. But to make it go smoothly and avoid failure, it's important to remember some things you shouldn't do. Read on to know more about what not to do on a first date.
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A first date is always special. Going on a first date usually brings with it mixed emotions. From the excitement of getting to know the other person better to the fear that everything might go wrong, a whole host of thoughts run through your mind when meeting someone in person for the first time.
Everyone wants their first date to be a memorable one. To avoid coming across as rude, it helps to know what not to do on a first date. Below are some things you should not do. Take a look:
Order something off the menu you've never tried before
Imagine this: You want to have a different experience on your first date, so you order a new dish from the menu, only to be terribly disappointed with your choice later on. This can have a negative impact on your overall first date experience. It's always best to stick to tried-and-true options on menus.
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Don't talk to yourself
One thing that most people do is start talking to themselves — talking about their childhood, teenage antics, work challenges, and everything else in one go, without letting anyone else join in the conversation. This can be a big turn-off for your date.
Don't say anything to fill a gap in the conversation
It's normal for there to be lulls in the conversation when you meet someone on a first date, but filling in the gaps with chatter is a bad idea. Rather than helping things and providing a pleasant experience, it can make the other person feel completely confused and uncomfortable, so it's something you should avoid at all costs.
Don't use your smartphone too much
No excuse can justify the behavior of someone who occasionally uses their smartphone on a first date. It can make the other person feel disrespected and disrespected. Therefore, no matter how urgent the call, avoid being obsessed with your smartphone as it can create a bad impression on the person you are with.
Be open, but don't reveal too much about your personal life.
Honesty and openness are always appreciated when going out on a date, but don't give away too much information on the first date, as you might end up overwhelmed.